Supporting exhausted women in building a beautiful relationship with themselves so they can hear their own voice through the noise and live a life outside the “shoulds.”
Social Media, Books, Movies, TV, not to mention all the demands of our time, get awfully noisy, telling us how we SHOULD or SHOULDN’T do our lives, and who we SHOULD and SHOULDN’T be, and… IT’S EXHAUSTING.
At which point we turn on ourselves, thinking, “I guess I’m the problem." So, we read the books, take the classes, and try different things to solve the “ME” problem, while rushing around doing all the necessary emotional labor to keep the peace.
While some things have given us momentary satisfaction, ultimately, we keep finding ourselves back in the same exhausted disappointment.
You’ve tried the self “FIX”
All the fixing, comparing, shoulding, and waiting for permission BS isn’t building a loving and trusting relationship with yourself - it’s the depletion of one.
The truth is, every human being wants to feel seen and heard. To experience a sense of belonging. THIS IS CONNECTION. And connection is the foundation of a loving, healthy relationship.
The irony is that the relationship with ourselves is the most important, yet we don’t take the time to listen to ourselves or give ourselves the vital attention we need.
What if the exhaustion isn’t a “YOU” problem? What if it’s actually a relationship problem?
This is what we explore in our coaching together. We’ll practice
listening instead of fixing
Building trust instead of self-monitoring
Making choices from inner authority—instead of external expectations
What if you don’t need to become someone new? Maybe it’s high time to come home to yourself.
This work helps you stop outsourcing your wisdom and start living from it.
Ready to see if working together is right for you? Let’s have a free sample coaching session.
ABOUT COACHING
While we work in tandem with therapists, Coaches don’t practice therapy. Therapy focuses on working through past issues, and coaching helps a person take steps to move forward.
Coaches LISTEN and REFLECT, which helps to unlock your inner knowledge and guidance, so you can discover your needs, wants and steps forward.
Together, we focus on what’s most important to you. Rather than focusing on what went wrong, we partner to create steps toward what works for you and what you want.
Your coaching experience can have a lasting impact on all aspects of your life! It can unlock who you truly are, what you really want, and ignite your knowing of which path to take.
Your Inner Wisdom is waiting for you!
Explore how personal one-on-one coaching can support your journey. Click on the button to learn more.
“Lacey creates a warm, open, and cozy space for me to bring whatever is on my heart to coaching. She really listens and asks the perfect questions that unlocks my wisdom to take the next steps in following my dreams.
I cannot wait to tell her in my next session what steps I took in between our coaching calls! I feel we connect heart to heart, which brings out the very best in me...just the way I am."
LR Stoughton, WI
Lace helped me get unstuck from a story I’d been living with for a long time. She helped me see that I’m not responsible for everyone, only myself. For the first time, I felt free to do something different with my life!
Lacey is an excellent listener and expresses genuine care, which made me feel safe to be myself.
GU Eau Claire, WI
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